BINGO!

October 15th, 2009

I’m so touched, and also rather excited, to have won my first blog award!

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I received the Bingo Award from Vicki who writes Reading At the Beach.

This award was started by Bookin’ With BINGO and here are the rules:

This “B-I-N-G-O” BEAUTIFUL BLOG AWARD means that this blog is…

B: Beautiful:

I: Informative:

N: Neighborly:

G: Gorgeous:

O: Outstanding:

I’m not at all sure that I my blog has these attributes, so I’m humbled to think that someone else does see these things in my writing and my play with my wonderful daughters.

A blog I do think has all these attributes is Towards Sustainability. Julie is an inspiration to me. Like her, I live a suburban life surrounded to a large extent by people who don’t “get it” when it comes to trying to live lightly on this planet, but her writings give me hope, inspiration, practical advice, and more. Please do go and check out her blog.

To celebrate my award, we’ve been dancing to one of M’s all time favourite songs: B-I-N-G-O! (lyrics here), and with half term holiday just a couple of weeks away, something along the lines of Playful. Productive. Present.’s summer activities bingo card could be a good thing to prepare!

And before signing off for today, I want to say thank *YOU* for reading my blog, for your comments and for the little community we are starting to build together.

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Not last night but the night before…

October 12th, 2009

…”three black cats came knocking at the door./ I came downstairs to let them in,/ They knocked me down like a bowling pin.

You can imagine how the little boy narrating this story (by Colin McNaughton, illustrated by Emma Chichester Clark) was a little surprised by these madcap cats as they rushed through his front door and into his house. Immediately it starts you wondering, what on earth is going on…

Suddenly the man in the moon is knocking at the door and he too rushes right in, leaving the puzzled little boy spinning on his feet. Alice in Wonderland’s words, “Curiouser and curiouser!” come to mind as next up the three little pigs knock at the boy’s door, hurtle through the house and up the stairs, knocking the boy down.

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In swift succession a whole variety of well loved characters from nursery rhymes and fairy stories call at the boy’s house, all of them appearing in a flurry of activity, with some unnamed urgent business to attend to. A normal book review might not let the cat out of the bag, but you might be able to guess the reason for the hoards of guests descending on the boy, when I tell you that not last night but the night before it was my birthday and this book was therefore the perfect read with M and J.

The penultimate page in the story shows a wonderful party full of presents and dancing and a room beautifully decorated – just the sort of celebration you might dream of as a kid (or big kid) for your own birthday!

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Colin McNaughton’s story in rhyme is fun as it keeps the reader guessing as to why all these familiar characters are turning up unannounced, and indeed, behaving a little bizarrely, but the story is really a vehicle for Emma Chichester Clark’s illustrations to shine. Her style is colourful and folksy, and perhaps a particular delight for people who like fabric, as the clothes worn by her subjects are always intricately patterned and detailed in design.

M’s attention was certainly held by the apparently rude visitors, bursting upon the poor boy, and I enjoyed daydreaming about which fictional characters I would like to have celebrate my birthday with*, so it was all in all a lovely book to read amid the festivities this weekend.

*Which characters from the kids’ books you’ve enjoyed would you invite to your birthday celebrations? First on my list was Laura Ingalls, but for something quite different, I’d invite Owl from the Arnold Lobel books – I’m sure he would come up with some very funny and touching way to help celebrate turning even older ;-)

Our weekend festivities of course included the baking of a birthday cake. Every birthday sees the production of our Chocolate Birthday Cake – an easy (but outrageous) recipe with great results – and one which M can make pretty much all by herself now, with the exception of one stage – pouring the hot chocolate/butter mix in (stage 6 – see below). It’s a fun cake to make as plenty of chocolate can be eaten along the way, and really a wicked cake to eat, seeing as it is made with half a kilo of chocolate…

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Ingredients:
*300g dark chocolate
*225g butter (I use either salted or unsalted depending on what I’ve already got in the fridge)
*200g milk chocolate
*75g self raising flour
*3 eggs
*225g sugar, preferably light muscovado, but again, I tend to use what I’ve got in the cupboard rather than making a special shopping trip

…plus a little extra chocolate…. (what more?!) – chocolate will inevitable get eaten during the making of this cake, so I tend to have extra, to make sure the quantities needed for the actual cake don’t get too depleted :-)

1. Preheat your oven to 120 Celsius (250 Fahrenheit, 1/2 Gas Mark) and grease and line with baking paper a 18 cm cake tin with a removable bottom (like these ones).

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2. Break dark chocolate up into an ovenproof bowl, add butter and then place bowl in oven for 15 minutes to melt the chocolate and butter. When the allotted 15 minutes are up stir your mixture to make sure chocolate and butter are well combined and there are virtually no lumps (it doesn’t matter if there are one or two).

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3. Turn up oven temperature to 190 Celsius (375 Fahrenheit or Gas mark 5).

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4. Whilst dark chocolate and butter are melting break up your milk chocolate into pieces no smaller than your thumbnail.

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5. In a separate, large bowl, beat your eggs and add the sugar.

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6. Pour the melted chocolate and butter into the egg mixture, stirring it till it is well mixed.

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7. Add milk chocolate pieces and flour to your dark chocolate/ butter /egg mix.

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8. Pour your cake mixture into your prepared cake tin and bake in the oven for about 45 minutes. Be warned – your cake mixture will only just fit in the 18cm cake tin. You may wish to put a baking tray underneath your cake tin to catch any spillage! You can tell your cake is cooked when the surface is all cracked and looks like a brownie, and when an inserted skewer comes out virtually clean.

9. Remove cake from oven and leave to cool completely, before removing it from the cake tin and taking off any baking paper stuck to the cake.

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10. Ideally serve with your favourite coffee, some cream (any which sort) and some raspberries if they’re in season.

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Of course, when cooking cakes with kids, licking out the bowl is also an extremely important stage in any recipe:

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not_last_night_frontcover Not last night but the night before: 2star
Alongside reading this book and eating chocolate cake we’ve been listening to Michael Rosen read his wonderful poem “Chocolate Cake” – click here for the text, and here for the audio book which has him reading said poem, and we’ve been dancing off some of the zillions of calories to the silly-but-addictive Chocolate Cake by The Rampage Trio.

Inspired partly by this post from skip the chips, and this post by Maya Donenfeld of Maya*Made guestposting at Bloesom Kids, we also celebrated my birthday was some nasturtium crowns – but I’ll save them for our next post…

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Laughter and a lot of it!

October 7th, 2009

Some books make you cry, some books give you food for thought, some books excite you, but books which make you laugh and laugh and laugh till tears are rolling down your cheeks are really worth their weight in gold. And for us, we’ve just found one such book: Tickle the Duck! by Ethan Long.

A touch-and-feel book of the highest order, great for babies and young children alike (both J (1) and M (4) adore this book), Ethan Long has created a grumpy duck who absolutely. does. not. want. to. be. tickled.

Unfortunately for the duck, tickling him is pretty much irresistible; first there is his soft, furry tummy crying out to be felt, later on a rubbery foot and a fluffy armpit. Despite his protestations, each time the duck is tickled he bursts into howls of laughter, but still, he refuses to give in. Eventually, at the top of his voice he yells “STOP TICKLING ME!

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There is a moment’s peace whilst the grumpy duck fumes, but then something in his stance softens… “Well, come to think of it, maybe you could just tickle me a little right here.“… and before you know it, grumpy duck’s mood has changed completely and he’s asking for more!

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If you can let your hair down a little to really get into the spirit of making the duck laugh, I can absolutely guarantee you and your young readers will end up smiling and giggling with this book. It’s a situation we’re all familiar with as parents – the kid wants to be a little aloof and rejects our kisses, or cuddles (or tickles), but actually, deep down, when he or she can be brave enough to let their guard down, they adore the affection and play, and for capturing and so eloquently expressing this truthful experience of childhood and parenting Ethan Long’s book already scores highly.

But this is a great book for several more reasons too! I love the book because it’s genuinely interactive – not only do we interact with the book, but inevitably we end up tickling each other and trying to make each other laugh. Indeed, Tickle the Duck! allows reader and listener to be plain silly, and sometimes we all need that little bit of help to really let go and play. I also think that the use of different materials to feel is put to exception use here – rather that just pictures of animals with (at best) a list of adjectives (you know the sort of shiny Dorling Kindersley touch and feel book I mean, I’m sure), here there is a real reason to touch the fabric and run your fingers through it.

Last but not least, I think this book is great because the humour genuinely works for both adult and child – so many books (and especially films) nominally aimed at children require an adult’s knowledge of the world to find them funny, to get the double entendres, but not so with this book.

So yes, as you’ve no doubt gather, Tickle the Duck! comes highly recommended indeed.

Mostly Tickle the Duck! has inspired lots of tickling and telling of (terrible) jokes, which has all be great fun. But it also inspired us to make our own touch-and-feel book, combining fabric scraps and The Shape Game. Here’s how we did it:

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1. M, J and I went through all my fabric scraps and chose a selection which included all different sorts of textures. We ended up with some velvet, lace curtain, fake fur and satin to name but a few.

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TIP: If you don’t have a stash of fabric scraps, you could (1) use bits of old odd socks, worn out t-shirts, jeans ripped beyond being cool, and any other fabric that would otherwise perhaps be thrown out, or (2) visit a fabric or upholstery store – they often have (cheap or even free) remnants, scraps or sample books that you could use.

2. Next we made our basic book to later fill with the fabric scraps. We cut a load of pieces of card (ours were about A5 size, but yours could be whatever size you like) and punched holes in them using a hole puncher, taking care that all the holes lined up with each other. We happened to have a couple of pieces of card we’d used for marbling which we decided to repurpose as our book cover, but your cover could be just another couple of blank pieces of card which you decorate however you like.

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TIP: If you don’t want to make your own book you could just use a blank notebook from a stationery shop. We made our own book because (1) we had the time and (2) the pages with fabric stuck on them get quite thick and we wanted to make sure there was enough room for them without getting squashed.

3. We returned to our scraps of fabric and checked them for size – we made sure they fitted on to our pages, and if they didn’t we cut them into any old shape that would fit. The idea is that the fabric pieces are randomly shaped, not looking like anything in particular – so using fabric scraps literally as you find them is great – no need for any further cutting!

4. We glued one piece of fabric to each page ie we took a sheet of card and glued fabric on one side. The other side of the card was left blank.

5. Once the glue was dry out came the pens and M turned each piece of fabric into something eg added arms and legs to make it a person, or wings to make it into a bug. This was inspired by our playing of The Shape Game.

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6. I asked M to describe the pictures she had created and I typed up her accounts, printed them off and stuck them on the blank sides of the card, making sure the appropriate description was opposite the relevant picture. I had wanted to use Font Capture to create a font of M’s handwriting, but this part of the plan fell by the wayside, so I just used a regular font already on the computer.

Where she gets her ideas from I just don't know!

7. The pages of the book, now full with images and text, were bound using 2 of the rings you can find on very cheap keyrings – it’s important to use the cheap versions as the wire only overlaps a short way, making it much easier to thread the wire through the holes punched in the paper.

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Tip: You could use ribbon or cord instead to bind your book, or even just a regular ringbinder, depending on the size of your pages.

8. We sat down with some milk and biscuits and had a good read and enjoyed running our fingers over the different materials :-)

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Not only was this fun to make and read, it has also enabled me to take part in Sew, Mama Sew’s Scrap Buster Contest so we’re all winners!

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Whilst playing with all the lovely fabric scraps we’ve been listening to Tickle Me by The Heptones and With a giggle and a hug and a tickle and a kiss by Barry Louis Polisar
Alongside Tickle the Duck!, we’ve been enjoying another Ethan Long book – Stop Kissing Me! – where our old friend grumpy duck can’t showering a reluctant poodle with affection :-)

2008RoaldcolThis also seems a good post to mention The Roald Dahl Funny Prize, which was “founded to honour those books that simply make us laugh”. Here are this year’s shortlists:

The funniest book for children aged six and under

  • The Pencil by Allan Ahlberg, illus. Bruce Ingman

The funniest book for children aged seven to fourteen

The only one of these we’ve read is The Pencil (Allan Ahlberg and Bruce Ingman) and it’s definitely a good read, and will make you smile. The winner will be announced on November 10, so I hope to get a few more of these books out from the library before then!

What books and activities really make you and your kids laugh? I’d love to hear about the last time you really roared with laughter!

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Bees and 5* accommodation…

October 5th, 2009

papapishu_BumblebeeWith summer over and autumn setting in we recently had the chance to complete a family project which has been on our list for several months – to create a bee hotel.

A what?” you may say. “Why?” you may well also say…. so here’s some background.

The past couple of years have seen a dramatic decline in the numbers of bees in the UK, mainland Europe and the US. Whilst it is not clear what all the factors are behind this population crash, the consequences of the drop in bee numbers could be very serious – bees are pollinators and as such play an important, even vital role in the development of many crops, and, of course, also in our own gardens. Indeed, according to the United States Department of Agriculture “about one mouthful of food in three [in the US] is directly or indirectly pollinated by honey bees managed by beekeepers.”

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Given this situation, and our family’s more broader interest in creating a little urban haven for biodiversity, we wanted to do “our bit” for the bees. Whilst honeybees live in colonies and may sting (both aspects making them more of a challenge to host in your own kid-friendly garden), solitary bees live on their own (the clue’s in the name I suppose!) and are far less likely to sting so they mix much better with little ones! (female solitary bees do have a sting, but it is a weak one, and very unlikely to be deployed). There are in fact about 250 different types of solitary bee in the UK, and whilst some like to nest in the ground, many like to nest in cavities in wood, including the Red Mason bee – one of the commonest solitary bees in the UK. A bee hotel is basically a way of creating the sort of place a Red Mason bee would think of as 5* luxury accommodation, and as well as helping the bees, making a bee hotel is a really fun project for all the family.

There are several different architectural styles used by fashionable bee hotels – take a look here, here, here and here.

We chose to make one using hollow canes from cow parsley and common hogweed, as it was more kid-friendly – M and J loved collecting, snapping and stuffing in the stems, whereas the hotels made using a drill would have required much more adult involvement (at least with a 1 and 4 year old – perhaps it would have been a good choice with an old kid). We waited until now ie autumn when the stems of the cow parsley/common hogweed were naturally dried out and hollow. I should note that cow parsley and common hogweed can be mistaken for several other plants that are not at all kid friendly – giant hogweed, poison hemlock and Fool’s parsley. [Please don't let this put you off doing this project - if you're not confident of identifying the plants then you could use bamboo canes, straws or if you grow herbs, lovage or perhaps fennel]

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We are fortunate to live very close to a couple of fields with a small stream flowing through them, along which there is a pushchair friendly path. It’s a great place for a short walk before bed time or for a longer bike ride to the nearest playground, the other side of the fields. The fields are surrounded on all sides by fairly tightly packed houses, so the open space is a valuable wildlife corridor. All this to explain where we went for our cow parsley and hogweed (seeing as they are not typically found in gardens!) – the kids thought this harvesting was a hoot, although pushing the laden pushchair home was not easy, and certainly caused a few raised eyebrows (but then I think my neighbours already have me down as a slightly off the wall sort of mama!).

The dried flower umbels were magical for the kids – it was like having handfuls of stars – and they made perfect magical fairy wands. The stems were treated like all sticks – as loot of the first order, perfect for walking with, tapping trees, swishing in the grass, making fires, and generally just feeling great having and holding them in your hands! And all this play was before we got home to transform the stems into the bee hotel!

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A small frame was made with short lengths of untreated wood and then the frame was then made aesthetically more pleasing by the addition of some bark, stripped from the planks we used to create our raised veg beds.

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The covered frame was then stuffed with lengths of cowparsley/hogweed stem. Solitary bees prefer holes 3-5mm in diameter, but ladybirds and lacewings will make use of larger holes so we made sure we had a good mixture of stem sizes.

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Once the frame was jam-packed full of stems we hung it on a south facing wall at a slight downward angle – to ensure that water couldn’t get caught inside the stems when it rains.

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We’re now waiting for the first guests to take up residence!

Having made the bee hotel I went on a search for a good book to match it up with for the girls. This was not the easiest of tasks as pretty much all the books I could find were about honey bees, and seeing as honey bees are the one bug that won’t be desperate to take our offer of lodgings, I didn’t want a book that was solely about those lovely creatures. In the end I plumped for a lovely book called Whose Garden Is It? by Mary Ann Hoberman, illustrated by Jane Dyer.

I’m ashamed to admit that until a few weeks ago I hadn’t heard of Mary Ann Hoberman, even though she is the current Children’s Poet Laureate in the US. But fortunately for me, Chrissy from Book Bliss left me a comment when I wrote about playing with dollshouses, suggesting A House is a House for me by -you’ve guessed it – Mary Ann Hoberman and from that short comment a whole lovely new world has opened up for me and my girls (Thank you Chrissy!)

Whose Garden Is It? starts simply enough – a gentle rhyme posing a question that would seem to have a straightforward answer.

Mrs McGee went out walking one day,
And as she was cheerfully wending her way,
She passed by a garden with colors so bright,
She never had seen such a beautiful sight!
“How splendid! How pleasant! How simply exquisite!
This garden is perfect….
But whose garden is it?”

As the story unfolds it becomes clear that in fact many things are needed for a garden to flourish. Fathoming who is responsible for the garden, whose contribution is crucial, is actually a much harder task than simply providing the initially anticipated answer to the question of ownership.

First of all the gardener insists that is it his garden (”I am the owner and everyone knows it. I am the person who plants it and grows it“) but as Mrs McGee explores more of the garden, other claims of ownership are made. The worm, for example, insists “… Why, I make the soil fine, / And that’s why I’m put here. This garden is mine!“, whilst the bee insists the garden is due to his activities “I pollinate flowers. It’s easy to see / This garden would not even be without me!“. Other animals also stake their claims, but then to further complicate the matter, the soil, sun and rain also insist that without them the garden would not exist.

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Having explored the garden and met all who play a role in its growth and health Mrs McGee, and the reader, are left still turning over in their minds, indeed, “Whose garden is it?

Although this book doesn’t have quite the bee-focus I was originally looking for, I love Whose Garden Is It? The rhyme makes it a delight to read aloud, and (from what I can tell) great fun to listen to, even for my 1 year old. The theme – that actually a lot of different things play a role in creating (and thereby “owning” if we want to use that word) the garden is wonderful – it reminds us of the importance of biodiversity, community, of looking at the bigger picture. It challenges the notion of “ownership” in a very gentle, but sustained way – and given that most young kids have VERY clear ideas about ownership “She can’t have the doll/castle/picture – it’s MINE!!!” I think this is a great way to start them thinking again about possession.

As if this wasn’t all enough to make for a great book, the illustrations are of superb quality – the garden looks utterly glorious with glowing sunflowers, ruby red hollyhocks, echinacea and delphiniums, and whilst I’m not convinced of the need to anthropomorphise the various animals and elements who claim ownership of the garden, the furry friends in costume certainly appeal to my kids.

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All in all a lovely book, whose theme could be described as the horticultural equivalent to the idea embodied in the phrase “it takes a village to raise a child”.

whose_garden_is_it_frontcoverWhose Garden Is It?: 2star

We’ve been listening to The Bee Song sung by Arthur Askey (a favourite from my own childhood), Flight of the Bumble Bee by Rimsky-Korsakov (great for dancing round and round to at dizzying speeds!) and the rather wacky Pollination Dance by The Denim Dirt Farmers.

Now that our bee hotel is complete, our next project is the much bigger and grander BUG hotel – something like this one, and then if we had the space we could even provide an amphitheatre for the creepy-crawlies – like this one at Kew Gardens. Now would that be wonderful ?!

Please do let us know about your favourite bee and bug related books and music :-) You never know – maybe your comment will inspire us just like the comment from Chrissy did!

And if you’ve made it this far in this ridiculously long post I salute you! *Thankyou* for spending some of your precious time reading my blog – I really do appreciate it!

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Castles

October 1st, 2009

A couple of weeks ago I came across a very stylish castle project on Bloesem Kids and knew straight away that it would be something the girls would enjoy doing AND that we had the perfect book to read alongside – Castles by Colin Thompson.

Castles presents itself as a non-fiction book cataloguing a variety of magical and mysterious castles the author has seen or heard of. Each double page spread is filled with a gloriously detailed illustration of a castle, accompanied by a short commentary on where one might find the castle or who its inhabitants are. My favourites include the castle made of musical instruments (”It was built by a family of musicians who were tired of the neighbours complaining about their terrible music. It is three weeks by donkey to the nearest house so now the family can play as loudly as they like without disturbing anyone“) and another made out of mashed potato (”This is what happens when sensible people tell you to stop playing with your food and you ignore them.“).

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Each castle hides secrets, and M loves looking for the kings, queens, princes and princesses on each page – a little like Where’s Wally?/Where’s Waldo?, only far more beautiful, and much more inspiring! The text will make you smile and the images will transport you to other worlds and times – this is a fabulous book for getting lost in! As a mum I also like that this is a great book about castles that isn’t full of battles, canons and fighting. Although there’s of course a place for that side of castles, it’s great to have a book that is much more about imagination and dreams than destruction and doom!

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Photo by Khali from Little. Lovely, originally posted at Bloesem Kids.

With our imaginations all fired up after a reading of Castles, we turned to make the recycled castle I’d seen over at the always stylish Bloesem Kids.

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What was so *brilliant* about Khali’s castle was (1) it uses materials that were all at hand (2) its design is fab – simple and bold, and (3) it is so easy to make. Often you come across project for kids and actually they’re rather complicated, time consuming and require a trip to the shops to get yet more stuff, but not so with Khali’s castle. It was just perfect for filling our Sunday afternoon.

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All instructions for making the castle are over at Bloesem Kids. We added turrets to the towers (by making cones of construction paper), instead of making flags we happened to have some sandwich flags (like these) and decorated them instead, and we also provided some platforms inside the castle, just below the parapet, so that it was easy for the King and Queen and their entourage to look over the battlements at the scene below them (the platforms were made from shallow plastic trays – the sort you might find inside a packet of biscuits – sellotaped to the inside of the box).

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We’ve had the castle for several days now and it is getting a LOT of play – a testament to its great design and the power of imagination!

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Castles: 3star

Whilst painting and playing with our castle we’ve been listening to Clapping in the Castle by Nancy Stewart and Castle on A Cloud from Les Misérables. Castles, unlike whales, don’t seem to feature often in songs!

Other castle activities I hope we’ll find time for include:

  • An ice castle, using the techniques described over at Ordinary Life Magic. I shall have to remember this for when it’s snowy…
  • Several of the knights and castle related activities from A Bit of This and A Bit of That, not least making the Poor Knights of Windsor!
  • Finally getting round to visiting some of the castles which are relatively near to us – including this one and this one
  • Telling M how I was once lucky enough to actually live in a castle (I can barely believe it myself!)…
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